What are you learning?

"Now, as the Sun enters Gemini, where it will stay for the next four weeks, it shines its light of awareness onto the routine of your daily life. Even if you're a rugged individualist, this is not a time to travel alone. If you are currently in a relationship or if you are motivated to start a new one at this time, just make sure that you don't lose track of your own needs."

I am learning to temperate my addiction to placing others before myself, for it often causes me to feel I need no One.  Union with my Nazarene Angel, my fiance, will only be sucessful if I balance my desire to maintain an optimal environment for research and writing with her desire to share our time with family members.

Both situations are equally satisfying for me. I do not want to later resent my time given to our family, often delaying my personal need:  writing/research.

In order to achieve this Union, and maintain it, communication and transparency are of primary importance, even if it will cause my Angel to worry.